Mar 14, 2010

Helping out...

I just sent an email...that I truly hope helps the person out and doesn't make it worse for her! I feel, if someone wants to let me in and tell me their hardships than I should be completely honest and tell her what I believe is correct! This is one time I should not be a sugar-coater! If a man is doing something to you and you do not like it...than tell him! Us girls, DESERVE all the happiness in the world. We do not deserve to be taken advantage of or cheated on or neglected! You know!!! We deserve smiles, and comfort, and true happiness! If he is not giving it to you, demand it! I hope that's what my friend gets from my email! Men, kinda, need to be trained! Only in a small amount though...they are used to being cared for by their mothers...than they get into a relationship and THEY must take care of the woman! That is a hard adjustment...especially for the "momma boys"...hehe (Christopher)!! I just never agree with changing the man completely...because we need to fall in love with whom they are because parts of them will always resort back to their true selves. That true self is who we need to love! Flaws and all!!
Okay...onto the next subject! I almost missed church this morning! Because of the time change! Oops, I forgot...like everything else! ;} I did get us all ready, then I hear Christoher shout out in a cute voice from Ryelon's room "ummm mommy, there is a 911 emergency in here!" It was the grossest sight ever! Poop everywhere...even on the carpet...now how you do this from a closed crib...I will never know! Let me tell you...I didn't know where to start and I was 5 minutes from getting out of the house! But, as mommies...we just take over and get it done...while the man watches in disgust!! He is a good guy though...I started it off for him and he finished! I made it to church to learn about demons. It was more information than I wanted! But, so enlightening! They will use our own actions to their advantage! I will continue to disapoint them and not display my weaknesses. The anger part would be the only weakness I have and I am getting better with that everyday...it is great!
Well, it is time for a nature walk with my kids! It is too much of a beautiful day to waste inside! =) Have a heavenly day EVERYONE!!!